Chocolate, long considered an aphrodisiac, contains three psychoactive chemicals; including pea (phelethylamine) a love chemical which releases dopamine in the pleasure centre of the brain. It’s still hard to deny the concept of licking and sucking on someone’s genitals is a bit weird. It simply looks like you two are incompatible. I want to kiss more during sex, but my so isn’t much into it, so it’s usually a random peck to the cheek or a bunch of kisses to the neck while we’re in missionary.
I can say at least so much that i’d prefer to do a lot of touching skin with my mouth during sex. For empaths and highly sensitive people.